Questionnaire

Ellen Matthews 

Ellen Matthews is an Attorney and Branch Teacher in Fremont.

1) When were you first attracted to Buddhism?

I had probably always had a good feeling about Buddhism, but was completely and overwhelmingly impressed by the first class I wandered into (an introductory class) a little over 8 years ago.

2) What made you come to this Buddhist Center?

I had been meditating and wanted to learn to do it better.

3) Were you apprehensive about coming?

I had no apprehension about coming to a class; I had no idea that I would go to more than one.

4) What did you expect?

I merely expected instructions for meditation.

5) What were your first impressions when you arrived?

My first impressions were that what was taught that evening (cherishing others is the basis of happiness; self-cherishing is the basis of suffering) was eminently true, but it had never occurred to me before.

6) What do you like best about coming here?

What I like best are the teachings (all of them) and studying.

7) How would you explain the benefits of meditation to someone new?

It calms the mind and ultimately makes it stronger, better, happier.

8) How has what you have learned here made a difference in your everyday work and home life?

Better relationships..... It offers many tools for dealing with negative states of mind.

9) What do you feel that Buddhism can offer to the world today?

Buddhism can offer so much to the world....the value placed on non-violence, non-harm, and ultimately the wisdom of emptiness.

10) What is your favorite Kadampa Buddhist quotation?

"Happiness and suffering are not outside the mind."

11) What is your favorite book by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso?

Eight Steps to Happiness

12) With what historical Kadampa Buddhist practitioner do you identify most, and why?

The historical figure I identify most with is Lam Chung (because I am a slow learner), although he is probably not a Kadampa practitioner.

13) What aspect of the Bodhisattva's way of life most inspires you?

Continuous and joyous giving and effort.

14) What's the first thing you're going to do when you become a Buddha?

Teach Dharma.